It’s Time to get Pissed Off and…

Passionately Hate Anything in your life that is holding you back!

“Holding me back from what?” Thanks for asking :) Holding you back from truly seeing the desires and dreams of your heart fulfilled and coming to pass.

The year was 2001. Life was good. I was blessed beyond measure. Wonderful marriage. Three beautiful kids. Parents, and extended family. We were the image of a Norman Rockwell painting of the perfect American family life.

Little did I realize that this was all coming to an abrupt end! Shattered, Broken, Disillusioned…

Now let me say real quick, Everyone was OK physically. There was an event in my overall family that shook and tested our very foundation. It took several years of pressing in, faith, prayer and good old fashion tenacity to make it through it all.

So why did I share this with you?

I am sure that many of you (if not all) have had life altering moments or events in your life, or you know of someone who has. The question is, “How did you or they get through it? How and in what way did it affect your life?”

Now, what does this have to do with the subject line, “It’s Time to get Pissed Off and Passionately Hate Anything in your life that’s holding you back? Holding you back from seeing your dreams and hearts desires fulfilled and coming to pass?”

Life in general, not including those life altering events has a way of Stealing your Dream. Getting trapped in the 9 to 5 rut, just trying to survive. Once a dreamer, Now a worker and fulfilling our duties making it through the week so we can hopefully enjoy the weekend…It’s time to stop the insanity and It’s time to Dream Once Again!

Your wife/husband need you to dream and dream big. Your children and family need you rise up and fulfill your mission! Your Why! This quote by Richard Bach is thought provoking and powerful, “Here is the test to find whether your mission on Earth is finished: If your Alive, it isn’t.”

One of my mentors is John di Lemme and he says this on page 52 in one of his books,”If every bill was paid and you had enough money in the bank for the rest of your life, what would you be doing? Take a second and write down your answer. That is your “Why”!

Give that some deep heart filled thought. And get passionate about Anything in your life that is steeling your dream and hindering your “Why”. Despise it. Get rid of it. Your family and friends need you to this.

That’s what this blog is all about. To help produce Action with Purpose.

I was going to write about multiple topics like Time to Hate: smoking, being fat, bad relationships, lack of focus and the list can go on and on…and have affiliate links on the various subjects etc. but part of my ultimate “why” in life is to speak into the lives of countless thousands both home  and abroad (19 countries so far) helping them get laser focused on their dreams and find their why in life. I thought instead of “re-inventing the wheel” I simply point people towards John’s LifeStyle Freedom Club where I know your life will be empowered and changed and where you will have the support and master-mind of people full of integrity.

So, go ahead. Get Pissed. Get Passionate. It’s time to dream and dream big!

And check out the LifeStyle Freedom Club today. It’s that banner with the really cool car and says, You were Born to Live free.

Talk soon. Thanks.

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  1. Wanda says:

    Interesting. Thought provoking

  2. KeithinCapitola says:

    “Life is a lively process of becoming. If you haven’t added your interests during the past year; if you are thinking the same thoughts, relating the same personal experiences, having the same predictable reactions – rigor mortis of the personality has set in.”

    ~General Douglas MacArthur~